I don’t want my children to be raised by another man. I want to raise my own children with the woman I love. Stepfather will not love the kids like the real father. That’s why so many children run away from home and live on the street, the real reason is their fathers abandoned them at an early age.
Darius Morethe wrote in his article ( mrdee.godaddysites.com ) about four principles of waiting upon the Lord. I will patiently wait upon my God and I don’t mind waiting I don’t care what other people are saying about me. I will have my own children at the right time, what the use of having children and don’t know where they’re. Perseverance is the great element of success.
” If you have been foolish enough to be arrogant and plan evil,
Stop and think.” ( proverbs 30:32)
What I have noticed is as we live, we must appreciate our lives and do the best we can. Life can be happier and sometimes can be sad. Nobody can understand what life means?
I sat down and thought hard about how people lives under the sun and I asked myself many questions that don’t have answers, and me too I can’t answer them. But after long and hard thinking about this life we’re living, now I want government to punish all men who run away from their kids.
Women have many children that don’t have their fathers and this children depends on government for support. This is a great challenge South Africa is facing today, because government is spending billions of rands on this issue and we can’t blame government and women on this challenge.
Men are to be blamed as well, because women cannot make children without men. On this issue it’s only women who suffers alot. They raise those children alone, and what is painful is, some women don’t have proper jobs and others are unemployed. While men fathers of those kids are know where to be found. And some men spend their salaries on beer and girls while their kids are suffering.
I think our government must do workshops and training to educate and warn men about the consequences of running and not supporting their children. Men need to know their place, they can’t just go around and make every girl they meet pregnant. This lessons must be implemented in our schools to make South Africa a better place. Government must also introduce school dialogues to discuss this issue.
School dialogues on productive health and teenage pregnancy
Health issue affecting the community
Substance abuse on women and children
We have more single mothers because people are not taught to control their behaviours.
Daniel Morata says, ” Both are to be blamed because sometimes break up it can come through men by cheating or other reasons and sometimes it could be women by cheating or other reasons is both sides.”
I think it’s not about cheating or divorce our government must introduce heavy laws on men who run away from their children and teach them lessons. And also warn women who always lie to protect themselves. The reality is many men have children they don’t know where they’re now. They are lot of children who are growing without their fathers and what is painful is their fathers are around.
In other words, Daniel Morata claims that cheating is only the cause of having so many single mothers. Cheating and divorce is the cause, but I think lies and deceiving are also the cause of that.
Another reason why so many ladies have children with different men is because women trust too much, when they met a new man, they relax to see if this new man is real or fake, but boom after having a baby a man runs away. Children are the one suffering in this dilemma. And they end up been street kids.
NB: Men you must respect women
Stop making kids everywhere!
Take full responsibility and support your children
Sources for further information!
A blog to read 4 principles of waiting upon the Lord
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